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It wasn't actually my intention to blog today BUT this is just an entry to repond to my dear sisters, edyrach and superbaby. Before i start, i had discussed the details with dear and he had no objection to what i was going to write.

To superbaby: Thanks for your comments with lousy english though. I did not know that there are somebody else reading my blog other than my sisters and good friends. I will assume that you are a random stanger because all my friends will either call me or identify themselves should they wanted to leave (a) comment(s) here. Well, I am not saying that you are not welcome and i think you are correct because a blog is a public place and anyone can read it. I was just wondering how did you manage to come across my blog?!

Thank you for your concern on my comedian lifestyle. In fact for your information, i am a comedian to all my friends. A person who is short circuit and behave like a clown in any occassion. I don't see anything wrong with it since i will get their laughter in return. My boyfriend treat me like an idiot or clown sometimes too. He will do something or say something real difficult and expect me to be a blond who will be impress by his knowledge. Well, sometimes women should behave dumb to retain men ego but my boyfriend is proud to have a clever girlfriend. This should be the reason why he was able to ask for my help when he was doing research while studying for his Masters.

I am not sure how many entries had you read because you only commented on the previous one. Somehow, I don't think you will be interested in any of my explanation since you will think that i am defending myself just as much as my sisters had been doing since after lunch today. Honestly speaking, i would very much hope that my boyfriend will leave his comment instead of me sitting here writing on his behalf. I had been telling him about the "war" my sisters had with you while we were both happily "pak-toring" and watching Quantum of Solace. He just couldn't be bothered about you even though somehow or rather you had defended him. He knew that i like to complain about him and sometimes it extended to my blog. Hmm... maybe you would wanna read the blog entry which i had written during September?! Anyway, thanks for your concern and dear was kinda "touched" that somebody had actually defended him. Even when some of your words were rather offensive, I will not take it to heart since this is a democratic society and Obama won the election (an analogy to democrats if you even understand my joke).

Oh ya.. one more point to add on. This is a reply to "This is not a trade unless you wan to treat it as a trading relationship.. In the world there's not such thing as fairness.. ". Probably to your dismay, my boyfriend and me both enjoyed this kinda trading relationship. Much to the fact that we enjoy talking about fairness to each other. Erm.. One example for you will be if he had paid for movie, i will pay for the meal or vice versa. Do you understand? One more example if you needed to be convince, We will both set a same budget for pressies of all occassions. The most typical one will be, if i get him a $350 pressie, he will also get me a pressie at that price. His budget will change depending on how much i will be spending on him. So far, we had been enjoying this kinda relationship. Well, we are a pair of weirdos.

Oh.. One more thing superbaby, with respond to your "As for me, I always fight for my own rights and happiness but do it gracefully without hurting anyone.. Always remember "wat is to be is up to me"... People dun do it, then I do it with ease not resentful.." For your information, bf and i had been fighting because we had both been fighting for our indidvidual rights. Hmm... somehow, if you are also understanding enough, you should know that people have different stand and have different rights. Everyone would LOVE to be righteous (another analogy if you even understand again). Also, to respond to your "As her sis, put yourself in a shoes of a nobody to jugde the things she wrote in her blog which may cause hurt to the other which maybe is not wat he meant.. Did she really do a confirmation with him at the first place.." I had asked my bf before i replied to you. He had indeed given his confirmation to start to pak-tor, to plan for our future and to buy a house. And I DID NOT ASK YOU TO JUDGE MY BLOG. Because i don't need a judge to my blog unless you are telling me you are a judge (if you even understand this is actually a joke).

Ok.. Lastly to respond to "Telling everyone in should a open blog does it means respect.. I have doubts here.. I think even if one day he wanted to leave he might also scared that his privacy being leak in blog.. hahaha.. sound scary rite.. " This will be on behalf of my bf. Honestly, he think this is crap and he think that i am entitled to write anything in my blog. He just think that you are super bo-liao to be even free to start the "war" in my blog. Oh ya.. If you are even a follower to my blog, I had blogged about my ex boyfriends here as well. I had a very lousy broke up with my ex but it was not stated clearly in here because i UNDERSTAND what is PRIVACY. If you even read my blog clearly, which pat of PRIVACY do you not understand that i did not divulge the reason of my tireness to my bf and my argument?

To my sisters and edyrach: Thanks for your comments as well! Buahahhaa! Very happy to see my blog being so popular now. I thought that nobody knew my blog even existed. Buahaha! Super duper happy to see my blog getting so many comments. Since this part of my blog is dedicated to those who had defended me, i think i better make myself clearer because i believe you all know about my situation more than SOMEBODY.

Like i had said, Ken and I had both took leave to pak-tor since there had been alot of arguments regarding the house. Should i use the word compromise? Hmm... Ok.. we had came to a resolution. I believe RESOLUTION is a much better word than COMPROMISE since both me and him had agreed on it. AND HE SAID THAT I CAN PUT THIS IN MY BLOG BECAUSE HE THINK THAT THIS IS MY SPACE AND HE HAD NO OBJECTION TO IT.

Dearest sisters, you gals know that my final fate will be staying with MIL and worst nightmare will be not able to purchase the flat at all. Ya... We will not be buying the Bishan place because Fengshui Master said that the direction is not correct. It is also very expensive and financially we will be tight up because Ken had to support his mother's 2nd condo (bf mum bought another condo other than the current condo they are staying in). For the past few days, he had been trying to make me accept on staying into the new condo which his mum had bought and will TOP at 2010. He said, we are not in a hurry to get a house and can look around since we already have a place available. Ok.. I had accepted what he had proposed at a final showdown just now. I know you gals will be very angry now because this doesn't sound very good at all. In fact, this is not the best idea to even consider at all. His sisters had willingly accepted that the three of tem will still share the loan for the new condo and we can move in. So in the end, i will have a FREE place to stay! Woohoo! But, this comes with a condition. Because that new condo is a place his mum had bought as an investment, we had became the third priority. That means, they will first try to sell the new condo (as in if the market is good and they can make profit), if not, they will try to rent it out, worse come to worse if the above to are not feasible, we will move in and stay in it.

I DON'T even need to pay for anything at all because Ken will be paying for it as per agreed by him just now. His family had came out with this for him so for my part, and being as UNDERSTANDING AS I CAN BE, I am fine with this decision and had told him that we will only start to hunt for house in year 2010 since we have the final answer to the EXTRA CONDO.

Lastly, to defend Ken, he had put himself in my shoe that nobody like to stay with MIL. Since his mum EXTRA condo will be like just 1 street away, it is a feasible plan. I had just found out the information of that EXTRA condo from him, it seemed quite big. Well, same old thing, we are the third priority to the plan and all decisions can only be finalized when the condo is ready. So we will hang on and wait until then. He do understand that i will not wanna have any more babies by 30. Oops.. am i divulging too much of my presonal life?! Ok.. Lets talk about this some other day because i would like to have some PRIVACY. Now i am a famous cow ok... so i need to have PRIVACY.

P/S: I did not actually wanna write about the EXTRA condo and part of the reason to the recent quarrel. Regarding dear's privacy, i had asked him and was CONFIRMING with him if i can actually jot this down and he had agreed to it.