Thought of the day

I honestly had no idea that i will blog today at this time. This blog will probably have some contribution to my cousin Benny with his ever influencial words that were totally sticked in my brain at this hour even after sharing a bottle of wine with Dear.

Ok.. I admit.. I was trying to drown his words after drinking and hope that i will forget his words after the wine but i was so so wrong. Given the time line, i should say, Benny asked me this question yesterday evening , he asked if i quarrelled with one of the close cousin and commented that it was very obvious. Hmm... we met few times in a year and honestly, i used to be very close with that cousin. When Benny asked me, I had nothing to reply except a smile and to bring the topic over What he had said was we were after all cousins which otherwise meant, blood thicker than water. I had tried to convince myself that it was a misunderstanding and we should let it past. It just seem like neither me nor my cousin were doing it. Both of us were Aries. Base on our charateristic, we will both to just be too egoistic to talk to each other.

There were times when i tried to convince myself to try talking or rebonding the whole relationship with her. She gave short message to me through MSN once and i replied with a short phrase. What Benny had said was the same as what my sisters had told me, she is after all my cousin. We both bore the same surname and blood.

Since young, everyone around me had been telling me that both me and my cousin were very much alike. Well, my reaction will be the otherwise since we are both different individuals. With Benny's words, it really gave me some thinking if things should be reset to the previous. I had never knew that the word from my cousin will influence so much of my thoughts. Is this a message passed down from some unknowned source?

I had dreamt of my Ah Ma but nothing was said in the dream. Both my sisters had been telling me bout the behaviour bout me and my cousin but things were not improved. The words from Benny really struck me hard. Is age really a matter or thoughts? Or blood really is thicker than water? Well, i don't know either. I told Dear what Benny told me but did not tell him that it actually influence my thought for the day.

Telepathy

The first email that struck my day yesterday was the email from Carrot... she was asking me bout the chosen date super duper excitedly. The next was while i was talking to QS, she asked the same thing bout the date as well. HAHAHAHAHAHA!

What can i say about my friends?! They are awsome!

Where do they get the information of my updates?! From my BLOG!

I asked Carrot how she knew about the date and she told me she had a feeling i will update my blog and ta da! she read it just after i updated my blog on Monday. And for QS, she told me she was reading YX blog when she thought of reading up my blog as well and ta da! she got the news as well... Hahahahaha!! as far as i thought, my blog was a neglected website, my close friends came telling to me they received the updates from HERE!!!

I was very touched la... and its kinda creepy since i had just updated it like on Monday. Can this be called telepathy?

After much waiting

Yes, after 1 month the Geomacer (dear said he is not a fortune teller, well... whatever) came back with a second date. This time, it was so near to the date which we had chosen previously. What the heck! Why do we need to calculate so much since we were the ones to provide the date and teh geomacer chose the "better" date out from the 2 given. Come on.. aren't they suppose to be the ones who give us the list of dates?! Simply don't understand how their so call famous Geomacer work. Well, maybe he is really famous enough that i don't know him and he can bloody hell charge so much!

Nevermind. As long as a date is provided I shall be appeased.Actually when dear's mum said the date, i was not very happy since it is a Friday and it will be quite inconvenient to our guests. I had already told dear that i would prefer the Sunday date to this Friday date since we do not have to request our guests to take leave on Sunday. Also, i seriously almpost blurted i wont be marrying since her son had not proposed. BUAHAHAHAHAHAHA! Evil lei....

Seriously... when are you gonna propose my dear? I never say i will marry you lor.

The neglected

Honestly, I did not know what title can i post for this and since i had neglected my blog for so long, i shall do some updates now.

Hmm... ok.. I am not as busy as it seems like from my neglected blog. The updates will still be the same as always since nothing happening really happened. It is like gonna be our 2nd year anniversary now. Plans are not made by me this time since the below happened one day while talking to Dear.

Me: Hmm.... Do you think we should really go for hotel stay using your Raffles Club vouchers?
Dear: Duno...
Me: Why you not enthu one?
Dear: Coz still got so many months ( this happened like 2 months back la...)
Me: Eh... you like never surprise me one lei.. Do you surprise your ex-es when you guys celebrated anniversary?
Dear: yes, of course!
Me: You actually planned?
Dear: Yes..
Me: Then why you never plan ours?
Dear: You are so kiasu... everything also plan 6 months ahead how to plan on surprises?!
Me: Ok lor.. I stop planning... you surprise me.

And from that day on, anniversary had never been our topic in conversations....